Bana hep soruyorlar. \u00c7i\u011fdem Hn nas\u0131l yapt\u0131n\u0131z? \u00dc\u00e7 \u00e7ocuk? Xsights? Bunca i\u015f, bu kadar sorumluluk? Pek de kolay olmad\u0131… Bu D\u00fcnya \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar g\u00fcn\u00fcnde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan annelerle ya da anne olmay\u0131 planlayanlarla ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klarla dolu \u015fu be\u015f prensibi payla\u015fmay\u0131 istedim, bu da benim hediyem olsun:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1)\u00a0Sat\u0131n alabildi\u011finiz kadar, \u00a0yard\u0131m sat\u0131n al\u0131n<\/strong>.\u00a0\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz zaman kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\/biriktirece\u011finiz \/ kazanmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z paradan daha \u00f6nemli<\/strong>\u00a0. Rutin ev i\u015fi, bula\u015f\u0131k, \u00fct\u00fc gibi yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken i\u015flerden uzak durabildi\u011finiz kadar uzak durun. Nas\u0131l yap\u0131l\u0131r \u00f6\u011frenin tabii ama yapmay\u0131n<\/strong>. Kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z paran\u0131n bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc \u00a0zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bu i\u015flerden kurtaracak yard\u0131m\u0131 sat\u0131n almak i\u00e7in harcay\u0131n. Siz can\u0131n\u0131z isterse yemek yap\u0131n, can\u0131n\u0131z isterse evi toplay\u0131n ama kendinizi bunlar\u0131 yapmak zorunda b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. \u00a0\u0130nanmas\u0131 zor olsa da \u00e7ocuklar h\u0131zl\u0131ca b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp evden ayr\u0131lacaklar ama ev i\u015fi bitmeyecek, \u00a0her seferinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 se\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2)\u00a0Her \u015feyi kendiniz y\u00fcklenmeyin<\/strong>. Hayat m\u00fc\u015fterek, e\u011fer bir e\u015finiz, hayat arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z varsa aman o yorulmas\u0131n, bunu da ben yap\u0131vereyim, bunu benim yapmam laz\u0131m diye kendinizi paralamay\u0131n.\u00a0Evlilikler\/ ili\u015fkiler \u00a0birer maraton ve siz iki ki\u015fi i\u00e7in ko\u015famazs\u0131n\u0131z, b\u0131rak\u0131n e\u015finiz de kendine d\u00fc\u015fen yolu ko\u015fsun<\/strong>. Bula\u015f\u0131klar m\u0131 bekliyor, b\u0131rak\u0131n e\u015finizi beklesin, s\u00fcpermarkete mi gidilecek bekleyin e\u015finiz gitsin.\u00a0Hayat\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131rken kendi \u00a0\u2018kul hakk\u0131n\u0131za\u2019 girmeyin<\/strong>. Temiz mutfak, tozsuz ev, d\u00fczenli \u00e7ekmece i\u00e7leri vaktinizin daha bol oldu\u011fu y\u0131llara saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayaller olsun. \u00c7ocuklar gidince b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ekmeceleri toplayacak kadar vaktiniz olacak, merak etmeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3)\u00a0\u00a0Kendinizden vazge\u00e7meyin<\/strong>. Anne oldu\u011funuz diye siz olmaktan vazge\u00e7meyin, annelik ki\u015fili\u011finizi bast\u0131rmaya de\u011fil, geli\u015ftirmeye vesile olsun.\u00a0Bir anne olarak, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za, e\u011flenmeye, size enerji veren her \u015feye art\u0131k daha \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z var. Ben art\u0131k anne oldum deyip bir k\u00f6\u015feye ge\u00e7meyin, hobilerinizden, sevdiklerinizden vazge\u00e7ip, kendinizi kurbanla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n, ileride sadece pi\u015fman olacaks\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye, \u00fcretmeye devam edin, art\u0131k bunun i\u00e7in daha \u00e7ok sebebiniz var.\u00a0Siz ne kadar pozitif ne kadar enerjik olursan\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z da o kadar mutlu b\u00fcy\u00fcyecekler<\/strong>\u00a0bunu unutmay\u0131n. Kendinize ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z keyifli bir saati \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in onlarca mutlu an\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4)\u00a0Tatillerin keyfini sonuna kadar \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n<\/strong>. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz 18 yaz var, her bir yaz\u0131 birbirinden g\u00fczel, e\u011flenceli, keyifli tatillerle ta\u00e7land\u0131r\u0131n.\u00a0K\u00f6ye de gidebilirsiniz kaya\u011fa da, nereye gitti\u011finizin pek bir \u00f6nemi yok<\/strong>, \u00f6nemli olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla yeni deneyimler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, bol bol beraber zaman ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz mutlu g\u00fcnler tasarlamak. Tatillerden bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir beklentiniz olmas\u0131n. Uzun uzun uyuyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tatilleri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z ergen olunca zaten g\u00f6receksiniz, acele etmeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5)\u00a0\u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken i\u015finizin hakk\u0131n\u0131 verin<\/strong>. Evdeyken evde, i\u015fteyken i\u015fte olun.\u00a0Hem i\u015finiz hem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizin \u00a0\u2018anda \u2018 olman\u0131za ihtiyac\u0131 var<\/strong>, eve i\u015fi, i\u015fi de eve ta\u015f\u0131may\u0131n. Hibrit \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ile bu biraz daha zor hale geldi ama i\u015finiz bitince bir du\u015f al\u0131n, iki \u015f\u0131nav \u00e7ekin ya da k\u0131sa bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n, olmad\u0131 kom\u015funuzun zilini \u00e7al\u0131n ama g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc net iki k\u0131sma b\u00f6l\u00fcn. Fiziksel olarak g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc b\u00f6lemeseniz de ruhsal olarak i\u015f ve ev aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7izgiyi net bir \u015fekilde \u00e7izin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sonras\u0131 kolay, \u00fcreten, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir kad\u0131n olman\u0131n hakl\u0131 keyfini s\u00fcr\u00fcn, gururunu ya\u015fay\u0131n. Hatta kendinize bir kahve \u0131smarlay\u0131n, sonra bir tane daha, bir tane daha…\ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u00fcnya Kad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz Kutlu Olsun !\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bana hep soruyorlar. \u00c7i\u011fdem Hn nas\u0131l yapt\u0131n\u0131z? \u00dc\u00e7 \u00e7ocuk? Xsights? Bunca i\u015f, bu kadar sorumluluk? Pek de kolay olmad\u0131… Bu D\u00fcnya \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar g\u00fcn\u00fcnde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan annelerle ya da anne olmay\u0131 planlayanlarla ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klarla dolu \u015fu be\u015f prensibi payla\u015fmay\u0131 istedim, bu da benim hediyem olsun: 1)\u00a0Sat\u0131n alabildi\u011finiz kadar, \u00a0yard\u0131m sat\u0131n al\u0131n.\u00a0\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz zaman kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\/biriktirece\u011finiz \/ kazanmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z paradan daha […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6392,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[133],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-one-cikanlar"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6391"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6391\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6392"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xsights.co.uk\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}